Hi Marlee; my cousin told the people at her company that her grandmother died of cancer and the funeral is in another country, they raised money to help her go to the funeral but our grandmother been dead for 10 years. she’s using the money to go to the Caribbean with her boyfriend and they photo shopped the obituary so she can get paid her bereavement time off from work. The problem is she trying to get me to lie for her because we work for the same company and they keep asking me questions about why I’m not going to the funeral. I told them she ain’t my grandmother and left it like that. People are now asking how we’re related and why she ain’t my grandmother. I don’t want to throw her under the bus but I ain’t trying to lose my job over her fling. Should I just tell the truth or continue lying to save her butt.